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Im 13 and want to get pregnant is that a bad thing?

Im 13 and want to get pregnant is that a bad thing? Topic: Business plan of baby care
November 20, 2019 / By Nikkole
Question: My name is Denise im 13 and i want a baby my boyfriend is 16 and he want one to so we were talking about it so he wants a kid so bad because he has one more year in high school and i just start high but he is about to turn 17 in july so i think is he is responsible of taking care a child i love him to death and i been with him for four months we actually been knowing each other longer than that so i need answer cause i want a baby i no how to take care of one i take care of my one year old nephew i been taking care of him since he was born so give me some answers please !!!!!! But i already had sex before i have did it like 4 times but i stated having sex in the 4th grade i was like in the bed all the time still is but that's just me !!!!
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Lynne Lynne | 7 days ago
Oh. My. Goodness... Honeychild, you are WAY too young. You've only just turned into a teenager for the first thing. You haven't been completely exposed to the real world yet. Taking care of a baby is really REALLY hard. It is WITHOUT A DOUBT, a full-time commitment. On average, without name-brand supplies and other such things, it is roughly $205,000.00 to raise a child from birth to age 18. And that's just the necessary things, on an average middle-class income. That is a LOT of money. So first things first: have you graduated from high school with your diploma? Do you have a job? Does your boyfriend have a job? Are you completely able to support this hypothetical child COMPLETELY on your own, with no help from your family nor his? Do you have your own house? Do you have some way of paying for doctor checkups and such for prenatal care? If you've answered "no" to ANY of those questions, you have absolutely no business thinking about having a baby while you're only thirteen years old. None, zip, zero, zilch, nada, diddly-squat nothin'. And this boyfriend of yours... We'll PRETEND for a second that I am not completely weirded and creeped out with why a sixteen year old would want anything sex-related to do with a thirteen year old girl. What in the name of old Sam Hill is he thinking, wanting to knock you up, girl?! This boy is exactly that. A boy. A man has a plan. A boy likes his toys. And that is precisely what you are to him if that's what he wants. He does NOT want a baby. He's appealing to your maternal instincts and crazy hormones so that he can "get some." The saying, "teenage boys are only thinking about one thing"? From personal experience, this is almost always true. And from what I can tell of your boyfriend, this is completely true for him. Don't be blind, sweetie. This guy is nothing but trouble, and if you end up pregnant, mark my words... He'll be gone faster than you can say, "oops." Get out of that while you can, and wait until you're older. Experience life and live it to the fullest; a child at your age won't let you do that. And giving birth at age 13 would almost inevitably have complications. You would have a high fatality chance, and so would your baby. I am telling you this with your best interests in mind.
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Lynne Originally Answered: Pregnant dog how much longer do you thing i have?
Why did you trust this breeder when she told you the b*tch was sterile? She was quite prepared to sell her dogs to a puppy mill. Therefore, not trustworthy. I'm sorry, but you're going to HAVE to go to the vet. Especially if you don't know the date of mating. If she is allowed to go too far over, she can die and her pups can die too. You also NEED to know how many puppies to expect... if you don't know that some are left in there (dead or alive) then again... your pet's going to end up poisoned to death. If you can't afford ultrasounds (£50ish), how on earth are you going to afford the c-section that could save her life (£1000+)? Chihuahuas are notorious for whelping complications, and very likely to need life saving surgery. For all we know... for all YOU know, she isn't even pregnant! Some b*tches can have VERY convincing pseudo pregnancies. I suggest signing her over to a shelter who can afford to pay for her treatment. **** ETA - Unless you are going to AT LEAST have the number of puppies and EDD determined, then I'm sorry, but you won't even be able to tell if your dog is dying. There's really no other way around it. It kinda IS an emergency, because without it, you won't be able to stop her from dying, and won't even know if there is an emergency. If the puppies die inside or get tuck, she will die from a combination of internal poisoning and exhaustion. It will be very unpleasant for her, and - I'll stress it again - without a number of puppies and an EDD, you won't KNOW if there are dead or stuck puppies in there. Google "whelping complications Chihuahuas".... I guarantee that it makes for very unpleasant reading. If this terrible breeder is a relative of yours, could she not be around to help? I assume, terrible as she may be, she's familiar with the signs of whelping complications in Chihuahuas, having presumably bred them plenty of times before.

Keeley Keeley
If I were in your position, the simple fact is number one it's illegal to do so. You are a minor until you hit 17/18 and plus since you are 13 it may be that he is legally able to have sex, but since you are 13 you can't consent to sex, so it is considered statutory rape! So you shouldn't think about it because of that first fact. Number two, you are just starting high school and you are talking about kids, yet you aren't even MARRIED! Plus, it would kinda be an incredibly huge responsibility to have just one child, and trust me, it is not a smart idea especially when you have only known the guy for 4 months! Plus, unless you are already living on your own and have a steady income, I wouldn't recommend it because (I'm not sure about this, so forgive me if I'm wrong) you most likely have an income of less than 40$ a week. I would definitely not recommend it, especially since he is most likely not living on his own and doesn't have a good solid steady income. One question I have is does your boyfriend have a job and a car? and if so, does he live on his own? and even so, think about what your parents would say if you walked in the door and said, "Guys, I'm PREGNANT!!!" Again, I URGE you to reconsider. At the very least wait until you are both out of the house and on your own! Having a baby is a rediculously huge responsibility, especially if you are still in high school, because you have no time due to you always working on schoolwork. Now, this does depend on the exact details of the situation, but in the end the language is pretty clear: Wait until you are older and think very long and very hard about what you would be doing You have to think about exactly what you will do in a career so you will then have a steady income for your future family. In all honesty you should probably be thinking about that first before you think about kids. I hope I could help.
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Ileen Ileen
You want a baby??? How are going to take care of the baby??? Guess what you aren't. Your parents will have because you will be in school and your boyfriend will be working two jobs to support the baby.So he will not be there to take care of the baby. Diapers. Food. Clothes. Doctor appointments....and all the essentials that a baby needs. l You may take care of your nephew but you don't pay for your nephew. Did you wake up ad have to feed your nephew when he was a infant???
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Eglantine Eglantine
This book is a must read for any woman trying to get pregnant. I was devastated and so was my husband after being told by my fertility specialist at age 38 that I had no option but to consider adoption or donor eggs (according to my doctor I was out of eggs and gave me 4% chance of getting pregnant and a 2% chance of carrying a baby to full term). After much research and dozens of hours reading infertility related articles and posts online, I have found this book! I never believed in anything alternative to western medicine and thought all the other stuff like Chinese medicine was a hoax. But I was soon glad to be wrong as I followed step by step guidelines. After one month of trying I became pregnant and had a beautiful healthy boy. Nine months after that I did everything in the book again and after 2 months of trying I got pregnant again and gave birth to another perfect little boy. I would recommend anyone with an open mind to read this book. It just might be the answer to your prayers.
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Chelsea Chelsea
Now everyone can cure infertility using this natural remedy http://pregnancyhelps.info infertility can run in the family and one of the first things the doctor asks you when you go to a fertility clinic is your family history regarding cases of infertility or other reproductive issues. If infertility is caused by genetic disorder then it's not unusual that one of the kids (your mom) doesn't have it and another does (your aunt). two months of trying is still to early to be concerned about the fact that you might be infertile and it's also quite early to go to a fertility specialist. Go to a regular Obgyb to get a closer insight and see what ways there are are to improve your fertility rate. Also remove alcohol, caffeine and cigarettes from your life because they might influence your chances too. Stress is also a risk factor when it comes to infertility.
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Arline Arline
Honey your just now starting high-school your just starting actual respobility....13...is too young.... 16 is too young u have 4 years of u school left if u choose to have a child u might as well just drop out cause u wont finish it anyways u dont even have a job and if you think he will be able to support u both off one income u have a ling road ahead of u!!!! Please for the love you god and the sake of the child do not!!! Have a baby
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Arline Originally Answered: 10 points. i found out i am pregnant and my boyfriend says abortion is the most reasonable and practical thing to do, but i want to keep it?
Here's my advice, I found out i was pregnant last June. I was so upset and thought my life was over. I talked to my bf and told him i wanted an abortion because I needed to finish school and all that. He told me no and that he would take her and raise her himself. Well fast forward to January i delivered my baby girl. I would not say it was the best thing that happened to me, but it definitely was not the worse. I was 21 when i found out i was pregnant. I do not live with my parents, and i now am back in school taking mainly online classes while my bf works about 60 hours a week. You either give up your baby or really give up your bf to help you. I pretty much tell him i raise her myself which i do most of the week. Hes there to help but always at work. In the end you need to think if you want to give up almost everything to take care of your baby. It will be the only thing that will matter anymore. It wontbe about you or him its about the baby. Next time you go to the store think about if you really want to pack a diaper bag make sure you have food diapers wipes an extra set of clothes, make sure you have enough for when you're out. Think that you can not just get up and leave that this person will entirely depend on you. Most days I sit at home and watch tv and do my homework. Because daycare is expensive and my parents work all day, and i dont really want his mom watching her, because she disappears most of the time. You give up a lot having a baby. Its a lot of work. Just think if you're ready to give up everything for a person. Im not going to lie sometimes i do regret having her. But i see the love that she gets and theres no turning back. I have nothing left to do but raise her the best I can. You need to weigh out the options you have pros/con. Just do what you think is best. Good Luck.

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