How do i pleasure a women in bed?
Topic: It is with my great anticipation cover letter
November 20, 2019 / By Arieh Question:
Lady's, my sex life has gotten a little dull and i want to know how to better please my girlfreind. Can any lady out there help me. im looking for someone who can tell me how to give my love an orgasm. any way you can help to show would be great (web links personal experiences, home video :p) just kidding on the last part but still feal free! all joking aside, Please help me. thanks
Best Answers: How do i pleasure a women in bed?
Trixie | 7 days ago
Here are some tips to increase the chances she'll
reach climax, including the secret to multiple
1. Don't start in the bedroom - Want to increase the
chances she'll orgasm? When was the last time you
surprised her with a little drawing, letter or
flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or
not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women
on because love and lovemaking are interconnected
in a woman's brain. Do this and you can
bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than
just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)
2. Relax her - It's hard for women to orgasm if
they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.
Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away
3. Ignore the vagina - Do you know that prolonged
foreplay actually increases the chances of her
coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and
touching her LONGER, you'll build the sexual
tension and often the anticipation will be very
4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attention
on the woman first, you'll make love to her much
more passionately. Think about it! If you've
finished first and decide to help her come, you
won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed
to keep her hot and turned on.
5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to
help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best
way I've found to not come is: Penetrate as normal
and when you feel like you're about to come, simply
move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a
hula hoop) and wait until the "little guys" subside
again. Now continue pleasuring. :D
6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural
lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned
on. By using a product substitute, you're only
fooling yourself. Without products, you'll
instantly know if things are working; but with
them, you can never be sure.
7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once
you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a
little thing called the clitoral hood will actually
come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from
further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making
this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully
stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next,
whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.
8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a
zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is
located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the
topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There
are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With
your fingers by doing a "come here" motion or with
a love position that helps hit the G-spot…
9. Use the best position - Not all love positions are
made equal. The best one for women is the reverse
missionary (woman on top). This is probably the
easiest position for a woman to climax because she
can control the friction to her clitoris and/or
10. Give her oral sex The single best way to help a
woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by
going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I
didn't believe it, countless studies have been done
to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much
more satisfying for women than intercourse is.
Try the ABC's with your tongue, ask what she likes,
and mix it up with lots of different movements!
However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve
endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything
there is to know before poking your tongue around
there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even
worse, spoil the mood.
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I like drawing houses, like architecture plans. I love designing them. I dont study or work something related to them. I have lots of plans i have design. I dont like sharing it because i am afraid or embarrassed people will say that i am always dreaming or playing. I can spend hours designing the perfect house, the perfect office, the perfect gym, school, hospital. Like i said i dont like sharing it because i will think people will just say you just wasted 3 hours drawing. I am not a Engineer or a Architect.
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This is best worked out between you and a lady you are involved with. It's always bad news when one person tries to read the other's mind, or doesn't go to the source directly for information. Even if someone tells you to do this, or do that, or whatever ... one individual might like it gently while another might like it firmly, so you always have to work it out with your partner.
But the most important part of pleasuring a woman is not the sex itself, and not even the physical foreplay. It's how well you can get her emotionally receptive to you and how well you can arouse her sensuality. Understand that the most effective arousal is that which happens hours before you actually start foreplay. Kiss the back of her hand once every time you're with her (very sensual). Sit behind her and brush her hair with long slow strokes of the hairbrush (if you find yourself in bedroom ... otherwise, out of context, it's a bit weird). Take a candlelight bubble bath with that stays short of foreplay. Learn how to massage feet, or shoulders and necks. Hold hands. Make sure that you can touch her, kiss her, and cuddle without it necessarily having to lead directly into sex.
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It starts outside of the bedroom. Focus on passionate enticement on a psychological level.
Be playful and sensual, but a bit hard to get. Be teasing and then walk away, suddenly focused on something else. Flirt shamelessly with her girlfriends or other women within your proximity, just to let her know that you aren't that easily 'had.'
Remember, men are more visual and physical when it comes to attraction and gratification, women are far more mental sexually. You want to rouse her female instinct by being challenging and not a mere push-over sexually, yet still attainable physically - but make her beg for it in the nicest kind of way.
Seduce her into thinking that so-and-so at work (name a gorgeous woman) has let you know she's hot for you. In essence, get your girlfriend so lathered up with desire for you - especially if she thinks you are attracted to other women and they to you - that she grabs you and leads you to the bedroom. Let her show you what she wants from you.
We women get incredibly turned on by the thought that the man we're with could be taken by another woman. It's one heck of an aphrodisiac, no matter how long we've been with someone.
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Had the same problem with my wife of 20 years, it just got old. Have you tried role playing? For a definite orgasm, your best bet is to tie your girl friend to the bed (or sex swing) and have a third party spank the both of you. Then if the friend is close enough, he can have your way with your wife while you masturbate. While it might not work for you guys it worked for us. Mainly cause I'm not into the whole poop sex thing. Guess I'm old school lolz
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Women have a G spot inside the vagina. If you put a finger in and push upward in the direction the stomach is and rub there softly for a while, also rubbing her clitoris with your thumb or tongue, a girl may reach orgasm. Remember, be gentle and ask her how she likes it.
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Personally, I would say, try out different positions, give her some oral and don't expect it in return, nibble her earlobe a little bit, kiss her sensually down her neck and chest, set the mood (candles, music, lots of romance), if all else fails, have a naughty conversation with her and ask her what her desires and fantisies are. then you will know exactly what to do. =)
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- The foreskin is as tight to the penis as your finger nails are to your fingers.
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Only clean what is seen
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